Audio Only Links From Our Community Conversation Weekend
with Wesley Hill and Beth Carlson-Malena
January 15 Wesley Hill
Worship with Wesley & Beth @ the connection
Sunday Morning Worship with Wesley & Beth
Wesley Hill Livestream
Beth Carlson-Malena Livestream


December 17, 2021
Update from the 2021 Community Conversation Committee

Dear Emmanuel family:

It is my pleasure to provide this update regarding our committee’s activities, and the Community Conversations we began this fall.  These conversations are intended to help prepare our community to provide a response to the proposed Identity Statement and 3 related Motions presented by our denomination, the Canadian Baptists of Western Canada (CBWC), and intended to be voted on at Assembly in May 2022.They can be found here:

Based on the results of a survey the CBWC recently sent to leadership at each church within the denomination, it was found that half of our churches felt they would be ready to vote on the motions in May 2022, while half felt that they were not ready or uncertain that they would be.  Consequently, the CBWC board has decided to modify the initial process and discuss and vote on Motion #1 at Assembly 2022 as planned, but defer voting on motions #2 and #3 until 2023, bringing them forward for discussion only in 2022.

Motion #1 is in regard to affirmation of the proposed Identity Statement of the Canadian Baptists of Western Canada.  This document includes a statement on Marriage, among many other things, and defines it as a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman.  Sexuality and 2SLGBTQ+ inclusion have been a principal area of focus for our community conversation resources and events thus far.  Moving forward in the coming months, we will continue this focus to prepare us to respond to the impacts of Motion #1, but we remain aware of the interconnectedness of the 3 motions and the future impact they may all have on one another.
We are pleased to announce our programming for the new year which will include several guest speakers.

January 15th and 16th, 2022

  • We will welcome two prominent speakers to bring their perspectives on 2SLGBTQ+ inclusion. Wesley Hill, a Christian gay and celibate author and speaker who is an associate professor of biblical studies at Trinity School for Ministry in Ambridge, Pennsylvania.  Wesley will be joining us in “virtual presentation”.  We will be joined in–person for presentations by Beth Carlson-Malena, a former Emmanuel community member, graduate of Regent College and co-pastor of Open Way Community Church in Vancouver BC, where she resides with her spouse Danice.   Both Beth and Wesley will share their personal story, theological journey and understanding/interpretation of scripture, as well as offer encouragement for how we may love, engage well and find unity with the 2SLGBTQ+ community.  
January 29th and 30th, 2022
  • We are pleased to invite Rev. Dr. Cal Malena and Dr. Gordon Smith to provide insight on their scriptural and theological understanding of human sexuality as well as marriage and the church.  They will also provide guidance for how we might love, engage and find unity with the 2SLGBTQ+ community well, and find unity amongst disagreement as we discuss this highly divisive topic.  Both individuals are well known to our congregation and will bring well studied/researched perspectives, though perhaps different, to our fellowship’s understanding and actions on these important issues.

These events are being planned for Saturday mornings, with a second presentations that will be repeated at both services on Sunday during their respective weekends.  Please save the dates!

The Community Conversation Committee is pleased to invite feedback from any church members and/or congregants regarding the activities of the fall, the upcoming events, or any other concerns or perspectives that they may wish to share.  Please feel free to send this feedback by addressing the link below.  All feedback will be welcomed, reviewed and considered by the Committee.

In conclusion, the feedback we have received regarding the activities and studies of the past few months is that they have been appreciated, and the discussions and dialogues have been respectful and made in a loving and thoughtful way.  It is the Committee’s hope that same spirit of love, grace and understanding will continue into 2022, as we welcome guest speakers and continue to prepare for Assembly.  I would encourage our fellowship to continue to explore the various resources that have been prepared for your consideration, which you can access at this link:

In addition, we look forward to the coming activities as we move towards addressing these important issues within our fellowship.  
On behalf the organizing committee,

Kent Anderson
Committee Moderator


Livestream for November 4th conversation
between Rob and Brendon
Sept. 15th, 2021
Note from the 2021 Community Conversation Committee

Over the past months, the 2021 Community Conversation Committee has been planning a number of activities that will help our church engage in conversation about the CBWC’s Identity Statement and the proposed motions for Assembly 2022.  Here are some of the activities that we are proposing for this fall and winter. 

In addition to the recommended resources that can be found at the Community Conversation Resource Webpage, we are encouraging our church family to engage in an eight-session Bible Study, using the study developed by the CBWC staff, To Be a Holy People, (with some modifications and additions from our committee).  We are inviting small groups to engage with the study this fall.  We are also convening additional groups to meet either in person or online on Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday evenings.  Please let us know of your interest in one of these groups by filling out the form below.

We plan to host several forums for presentations and dialogue.  The first of these will be on Thursday, November 4, 7-9pm, featuring the lead pastors of both congregations (morning and The Connection).  Each of the pastors, Brendon and Rob, will be asked to offer their perspectives on the Identity Statement, with particular focus on the questions of sexuality and marriage as well as the intersection of local church autonomy and associational interdependence (or interdependence within our church association/denomination).

In January, we are planning to invite two persons from the LGBTQ+ community to share their stories with us.  We are hoping to have someone who is married to a person of the same sex and one who is committed to a life of celibacy.

In February, we a planning to host a weekend of Biblical and theological reflection with two leaders, one making the case for the marriage equality and the full inclusion of LGBTQ+ people in the life and ministry of the church, and one advocating for a gracious hospitality toward LGBTQ persons while upholding the traditional position on marriage and sexuality.

In March, we anticipate one more forum to discuss questions of local church autonomy and interdependence within our church association (denomination), and then, in April, a vote on the motions that would inform the delegates who will represent our church at Assembly 2022.

We ask that you continue to pray for our church family as we engage in these conversations over the next year and that you give some priority to your participation in them. 
*Registration is now closed for the Bible Study*
Sept. 1, 2021



Assembled by the Emmanuel Subcommittee, June 2021


2021 Community Conversation

Over the next year, the Emmanuel Baptist Church community will be engaging in an extended conversation around the proposed CBWC* Identity Statement and the associated motions to be voted on at the CBWC Assembly in 2022. To assist our congregational learning and discussion, we have assembled a list of resources on the topics of church association and autonomy, sexuality and the church, and LGBTQ+* stories. We also provide links to resources assembled by CBWC staff. The resources are separated into an Introductory List, which can be read in an hour or two, and an Extended List that explore the issues in greater detail. These resources have been assembled in response to the June 2021 congregational survey.

CBWC        Canadian Baptists of Western Canada
LGBTQ+     Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Queer +.
Affirming – supporting the inclusion of those who identify as LGBTQ+ in the life of the church,   
                   including church membership for LGBTQ+ persons;
Welcoming but not Affirming – desiring to grow in understanding and love for those who identify as
                  LGBTQ+ but not supporting church membership for LGBTQ+ persons except those who
                  are single and celibate.
Resources to Aid in Having Good Conversations:

On Being: Civil Conversations Project. Better Conversations: A Starter Guide. Article. Length: 15 min. Provides advice about how to facilitate constructive conversations with others who think differently, in areas that are uncomfortable and potentially contentious.



Psychology Today. A 5-Step Recipe for Opening People’s Minds – Stop Debating and Start Dialoguing. Article. Length: 10 min. Discussion points and tips for healthy conversation with people who hold opposing views to our own.


Resources on Church Association and Autonomy
Rob Ogilvie and Sam Breakey, CBWC. A Letter of Explanation the to Churches of the CBWC. February 2021. A letter sent to all CBWC churches providing background to the development of the Identity Statement, for consideration at Assembly 2022. Position: In support of the proposed Identity Statement. FINAL-preamble-for-motions-and-id-statement.pdf (
Cal Malena and two CBWC pastors. Autonomy and Affiliation. A response written and edited by two current and one former pastor within the CBWC regarding the topics of Baptist autonomy and denominational affiliation in response to the motions put forward by the CBWC for Assembly 2022. Position: Argues that the proposed Identity Statement is not consistent with the Baptist commitment to the autonomy of each local congregation.

CBWC. FAQs About Assembly. Responses to Frequently Asked Questions about CBWC Annual Assemblies and the proposed Identity Statement, prepared by CBWC staff.

FAQs-assembly.pdf (


Resources on Sexuality and the Church

John Shore. Taking God at His Word: The Bible and Homosexuality. Blog post. Length: 10-15 min. A blog post that takes a second look at biblical passages relating to same-sex relationships. Position: Affirming.


Ron Sider: Homosexuality – A Better Approach. A webpage that addresses the church’s response to gay people. Web-Based Article. Length: 10-15 min. Position: Welcoming but not affirming.


The Reformation Project (Matthew Vines): The Biblical Case for LGBTQ Inclusion. A well-crafted webpage listing ten Biblical reasons for LGBTQ inclusion in the church. Web-Based Article. Length: initially 10 min, with links for further exploration of each of the ten reasons. Position: Affirming.


Preston Sprinkle. 15 Reasons for Affirming Same – Sex Relations — and 15 Responses. Position Paper. Length: 30-60 min. One of 15 position papers from the Center for Faith, Sexuality & Gender, summarizing then countering 15 reasons to affirm same-sex relations. Position: Welcoming but not affirming, a thoughtful response to “The Reformation Project” (Matthew Vines, above).



CBWC Resources

CBWC staff have assembled an extensive set of resources to help its member churches prepare for Assembly 2022. They are available through the CBWC website ( To access, scroll down the webpage and click on DIALOGUE, DISCOVER, or DISCERN to access expanded lists. In particular, we suggest:

For those who wish to delve deeper, an exhaustive list of resources from multiple perspectives outside the CBWC is available under: DISCOVER: Faith, Sexuality and Gender: Recommended Reading

Sexuality and the Church
Ron Sider. Will You Lead the Church to a Better Stance on Homosexuality? Book chapter. Length: 30-60 min. An expanded discussion of a thoughtful, non-affirming approach, from Chapter 5 of “The Future of our Faith”, Brazos Press, 2016. Position: Welcoming but not Affirming.


Matthew Vines. The Gay Debate: The Bible and Homosexuality. YouTube Video. Length: 1 hour, 7 min. The author of ‘God and the Gay Christian’, discusses his book in this presentation to a church in Wichita, Kansas in 2012.


Sam Allberry. Is God Anti-Gay? Answering Tough Questions About Same-Sex Marriage. YouTube Video. Length: 56 min. A celibate same-sex-attracted Anglican Rector from the UK and author of “Is God Anti-Gay?” presents to the Southern Baptist’s Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission in 2014. Position: Welcoming but not Affirming.


The Liturgists. Episode 20, LGBTQ. Podcast. Length: 2 hours. A group of leading Christians join Science Mike and Michael Gungor to share their stories and perspectives on LGBTQ persons and the church. Contributors: Donald Miller and J.J Peterson; Matthew Vines; Melissa Greene, Stan Mitchell, and Tabitha from GracePointe; Preston Sprinkle; and Ed Gungor. Position: Spans different points of view, intended to facilitate conversation.


Wiltshire Baptist Church, Dallas Texas. Inclusion and Diversity Study Group Presentation. YouTube Video. Length: 2 hours. Presentation featuring speakers addressing varied perspectives of diversity and inclusion through the lenses of scripture, genetics, mental health and more. Position: Spans different points of view, summarizes one church’s extended dialogue.


Justin Lee and Wesley Hill. How Do We Love? A Thoughtful Dialogue on Sexual Differences. YouTube Video. Length: 2 hours, 6 min. Justin Lee, author of “Torn – Rescuing the Gospel from the Gays-vs-Christian Debate” and Wesley Hill, author of “Washed and Waiting – Reflections on Christian Faithfulness and Homosexuality” present their respective sides of the issue in response to a paper published by Biola University in 2015. Position: one Affirming (Lee) and the other Welcoming but not Affirming (Hill).

David Gushee. Changing Our Minds. YouTube Video. Length: 2 hours, 5 min. An evangelical ethicist and author of “Changing our Minds: A Landmark Call for Inclusion of LGBTQ Christians”, presents and answers questions regarding full inclusion of LGBTQ Christians in the church to A Gathering of Baptists in 2020. Position: Affirming.


Preston Sprinkle. Grace//Truth: Conversations Thoughtful Christians Should Have About Faith, Sexuality and Gender. Group Study. Length: 10 weeks. Group study hosted by the author of “People to Be Loved” and Director of the Centre for Faith, Sexuality & Gender. Position: Welcoming but not affirming.

LGBTQ+ Stories

Jen Hatmaker: Jen & Sydney Hatmaker on Being Gay, Christian & Loved. Podcast. Length: 45 min. A mother daughter conversation about what it is like to grow up as the daughter of a popular Christian author and speaker, and realize you are gay. Position: Affirming.


Wesley Hill: Homosexuality and Christian Faithfulness – Wesley Hill and Darrell L. Bock. YouTube Video. Length: 46 min. An interview of a gay Christian who chose celibacy, on same-sex attraction and spiritual friendship. Position: Welcoming but not Affirming.


Beth Carlson-Malena. Pastor-Cal (The Beth Blog Ever, August 22, 2015). Blog Post. Length: 5 min. Beth Carlson-Malena discusses her father Cal’s retirement, his shifting theological views on LGBTQ+ relationships, and their family. Position: Affirming.


Rachel Gilson: Born Again This Way – Interview with Rachel Gilson. YouTube Video. Length: 56 min. A “Speak Life” interview of a Christian lesbian who chose marriage to a man. Position: Welcoming but not Affirming.


Justin Lee. Through My Eyes. YouTube Video. Length: 45 min. North American Christians in their teens and twenties share their experiences with church debates on homosexuality by asking them “What is life like through your eyes?” Position: Affirming.


Mennonite Church Canada. The Listening Church project. YouTube Video. Length: 10 min. The Listening Church project creates space for Mennonite LGBTQ people to speak about their experiences in Mennonite Church Canada congregations. Drawing on the wisdom of their experiences in the church, the participants share insights for the church as it discerns how to faithfully relate to those in the church community who identify as other than heterosexual. Contains initial information about the project as well as links to additional resources.

Church Association and Autonomy

Stephen Holmes. Baptist Theology. Book Excerpt. Length: 10 pages. An excerpt from “Baptist Theology” by a Baptist Theologian in the U.K., providing an historian’s overview of Baptist (congregational) governance including the independence and interdependence of local congregations. The relevant text begins towards the bottom of the first page.



William Brackney. Toward a More Robust Ecclesiology. Paper. Length: 16 pages. A professor at Carey Theological College explores the historic Baptist understanding of the church, and addresses current issues in church identity, governance, and mission.